See also:
- u/ breakfastpotato’s Don’t rock the boat
- The Missing Stair by Cliff Pervocracy
- “I really hate the culture of guilting good people instead of holding the bad ones accountable because it’s easier to do so.” – u/hummingelephant, excerpted
- “I feel like the whole, ‘You’re right but you could have handled this better’ can be a kind of ‘don’t rock the boat’.”
- You aren’t the cause of the rift
- “You are experiencing an extinction burst. You said ‘no’. Now the group of people who have become accustomed to ignoring your ‘no’ are amping up the abuse, because if they overwhelm you into apologizing, they can go back to using you…”