Videos

Abuse, Interrupted stinger

Rushing into relationship keeps you stuck with toxic people because you 'made a promise'

Trauma does not give anyone 'a heart of gold', and discovering it exists is not a redemption arc

Why people often aren't on your side when you try to stand up for yourself against an abuser

Be SO careful about the stories you tell yourself about who you are because identity drives decision

Warning to victims: do not use A.I. to try and 'litigate' your relationship with an abuser

The lie of the great monologue, and why victims don't heal in the dynamic where they were harmed

Drive-by advice can harm victims of abuse (and unsolicited 'solutions')

How society gaslights victims of abuse (and the social mechanism of role enforcement)