Videos

Drive-by advice can harm victims of abuse (and unsolicited 'solutions')

How society gaslights victims of abuse (and the social mechanism of role enforcement)

Considerations when speaking to child victims of abuse (and creating a bridge to advocacy)

Sometimes it starts when you're an infant (when child victims of abuse try to figure out why)

HOW someone tells the story of what happened to them is just as important as what happened

How low distress tolerance can trigger victims of abuse into 'keeping the peace'

Why it's easy for intellectual arrogance to slip into abuse, and breaking down toxic intellectualism

Smart abusers will rules lawyer you into submission

Why don't victims leave at the first sign of abuse? How normalcy bias blinds us to escalating danger