We have this idea of what it means to be loving and to be in a loving relationship, but we don’t see it as a DYNAMIC, just our own actions.

This one-way idea of love is so completely unbalanced.

…and (paraphrasing Lee Hammock) trying to ‘stand by’ them and to keep giving more and more until you are drained, this person will often leave you because you are no longer the person you used to be.